- Learn more about breastfeeding and the available resources and local support for breastfeeding help
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Refer to our Feeding Your Baby guide to introducing solid foods.
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Learn about Infant Formula: What you need to know to make the decision to feed your baby infant formula.
Babies 0-12 months
Becoming a parent is exciting, but it can also feel overwhelming. You might have a lot of questions about caring for your baby. That’s okay! We’re here to help. Let’s go through the basics together.
How do I care for my baby?
Newborns are small and delicate. It might take some time to feel confident caring for them. Here’s what you need to know:
How often do I change my baby’s diaper?
Change your baby’s diaper whenever it’s wet or dirty to keep them comfortable. Make sure you have everything you need nearby before you start, and never leave your baby alone on the change table, even for a second.
If your baby gets a diaper rash that doesn’t go away after a few days, talk to your doctor or nurse.
Learn more about diaper rash from the Canadian Paediatric Society.
How do I care for the umbilical cord?
Your baby’s umbilical cord will fall off on its own about 1–3 weeks after birth. It will dry out, harden, and turn dark in colour before falling off. Until then, keep the area clean and dry.
Contact your doctor or nurse if your baby gets a fever or if the area around the umbilical cord:
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Looks red or swollen
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Leaks yellow pus
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Has a bad smell
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Bleeds a lot (a small amount of bleeding is normal, and you might see a few spots of blood on your baby’s clothes)
How do I bathe and groom my baby?
Babies don’t need a bath every day, but you should clean their hands, face, neck, and diaper area daily. Bathing too often can dry out their skin.
Give your baby a bath every few days. Use a safe spot like a baby bathtub or a sink. Always test the water with your wrist or elbow to make sure it’s warm, not hot. Never leave your baby alone in the bath—not even for a moment. Keep everything you need within arm’s reach. If you have to step away, take your baby with you.
Trim your baby’s nails when they grow past their fingertips. Use blunt scissors and try cutting them while your baby is sleeping or after feeding when they are calm.
Clean your baby’s gums twice a day. Use a soft, damp cloth or a baby finger toothbrush to gently wipe their gums from back to front to remove any leftover milk.
Dress your baby based on the temperature. A good rule is to dress them in one more layer than what you’re wearing. Babies lose a lot of heat through their heads, so a hat might be needed, depending on the weather.
Make sure your baby doesn’t get too hot. Their skin should not feel hot or sweaty. If you’re going out, pack extra layers in your diaper bag so you can add or remove clothes if needed.
Choose clothes that are easy to put on and take off, especially for diaper changes.
How to know if my baby is sick?
Babies can get sick quickly, so it’s important to see a doctor if you’re worried. Babies younger than 6 months should see a doctor if they have a fever, and babies under 3 months should be seen right away.
Take your baby to the doctor if they:
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Look yellow (jaundice)
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Have a rash that doesn’t go away, especially near the diaper area
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Refuse to eat or are having trouble feeding
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Have a dry mouth, lips, or tongue
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Stop pooping like they normally do
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Pee less or have dark pee
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Throw up more than twice in one day
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Have diarrhea
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Have black, bloody, grey, or chalk-colored poop
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Have a cough that won’t go away
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Are very sleepy or weak and hard to wake
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Have blue or grey lips or ear lobes
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Have trouble breathing or are breathing very fast
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Have a seizure (shaking and not responding to you)
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Show any other signs of being sick
If you think your baby is sick, check their temperature and see a doctor if needed.
How do I check my baby’s temperature?
The best way to check your baby’s temperature is by using a clean thermometer in their bum. This gives the most accurate reading. If you’re not comfortable with that, you can also check their temperature under their armpit.
Your baby has a fever if:
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Their temperature is over 38°C (100.4°F) when taken in the bum
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Their temperature is over 37.5°C (99.5°F) when taken under the armpit
Learn more about fever and how to check your baby’s temperature from the Canadian Paediatric Society.
How do I create a bond with my baby?
Building a bond with your baby is important for their healthy growth and development. Here are some simple ways to create a strong connection:
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Comfort your baby with touch and soothing words when they need you
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Hold your baby skin-to-skin, especially while feeding or cuddling
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Give your baby tummy time every day to help them grow stronger
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Talk, sing, or read to your baby to build your connection and encourage learning
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Rock or sway gently with your baby to help calm and soothe them
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Watch your baby’s facial expressions and listen to their sounds to understand what they need
How can I provide safe sleeping for my baby?
The safest place for your baby to sleep is in their own crib, on their back, and in your room for the first six months. Here’s how to create a safe sleep space for your baby:
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Make sure the area is smoke-free during pregnancy and after your baby is born
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Always place your baby on their back to sleep
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Use a crib, cradle, or bassinet that is the right size for your baby’s age and meets Canadian safety standards
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Use a firm mattress with only a fitted sheet. If needed, use a light blanket. Don’t put pillows, comforters, stuffed toys, bumper pads, or any loose items in the crib—these can be dangerous.
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Keep your baby’s crib, cradle, or bassinet next to your bed for the first six months
Learn more about safe sleep for babies from the Public Health Agency of Canada.
Newborns sleep a lot! From birth to about two months, babies sleep around 18 hours a day, waking up every few hours to eat.
During the first year, babies usually sleep about 14 hours a day. It’s normal for them to wake up at night to feed for several months.
Your baby spends a lot of time on their back while sleeping and playing. To help prevent flat spots on their head, you can:
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Change which end of the crib you place your baby’s head each day
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Move the mobile to a different spot in the crib to give your baby something new to look at
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Avoid keeping your baby in a car seat or stroller for long periods
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Do tummy time with your baby while they are awake. Try 10–15 minutes of supervised tummy time at least three times a day.
These small changes can help keep your baby’s head healthy and well-shaped!
What do I do when my baby is crying?
It’s normal for babies to cry—it’s how they let you know they need something. When you respond quickly, it helps your baby feel safe and cared for. Babies might cry because they are:
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Hungry or thirsty
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Too hot, cold, or uncomfortable
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Tired or overstimulated
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Looking for a cuddle or feeling bored
How to calm your baby
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Hold your baby close, and try skin-to-skin contact
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Walk around with your baby in a carrier or stroller
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Rock your baby gently or play soft sounds like music or white noise
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Give your baby a gentle massage or a warm bath
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Go for a short walk outside to change the scenery
If your baby won’t stop crying and you’re feeling frustrated, it’s okay to take a break. Place your baby in a safe spot like a crib and take a moment to breathe.
Crying doesn’t mean you’re a bad parent. Sometimes nothing works—and that’s not your fault. Never shake your baby, even when you’re feeling overwhelmed. Shaking can cause serious harm like brain damage, blindness, or even death.
If you’re feeling frustrated, call a friend, loved-one or reach out to our Know & Grow Line below. Asking for help isn’t a weakness—it’s a moment of strength and care for both you and your baby.
Crying can be tough, but it will get better. You’re doing your best, and that matters. For more support, learn about colic and crying from the Canadian Paediatric Society. You’re not alone.
Where can I find more Child and Family Health support?
Explore additional support services available to you:
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Sign up for breastfeeding support – Receive breastfeeding support from our Public Health Nurses
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Join the Healthy Babies Healthy Children program for free support for your family’s health from our Public Health Nurses or a Parent Resource Worker
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Learn more about Child & Family Health Topics – Explore our resources on child and family health topics
How can I reach SWPH for parenting and child support?
Have questions about parenting, health, or development? Call our Know & Grow Line to speak with a public health nurse:
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Oxford County: 519-421-9901 ext. 3473
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Elgin County: 519-631-9900 ext. 1400
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